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Celebrating Children

September 8th, 2006 Visited 1343 times, 1 so far today

Father and Son

Something inside me shrivels up when the Christians around me start talking about big families. It’s rarely good, what they’re saying, thus the recoil spirit-wise. Shouldn’t we Christians be more Biblical in our child-bearing viewpoints?

So what if the world tells us children are burdensome, and that some people aren’t cut out to raise them. Talk about limiting God. Job 39:13-16 talks about how God had purpose in creating the ostrich, even though she leaves her eggs in the dust, forgetting that a foot could crush them or a wild beast destroy them. Obviously, not a great candidate for motherhood. Yet, God in His sovereignty, created the ostrich that way.

My husband and I only have three children. Yet, some in the extended family consider us to have tipped the scales. They would not be excited if we announced a fourth pregnancy.

Instead of getting hurt feelings over this, I rebel against it. I celebrate children. Here’s how:

  • Send a card of congratulations to every couple in your family/friend circle who announces a new pregnancy.
  • Take “expectant” family members out to dinner to celebrate the announcement. It’s worth celebrating!
  • Every child deserves a baby shower and most churches stop throwing showers after the arrival of the firstborn. If you can’t start a new tradition, at least give a small token of happy acknowledgement (card or gift) to this family’s special new member.
  • Live in such a way that people can’t help but see your heart for kids. For instance, if you’re frustrated over the baby’s interruptions during homeschool time, your older kids are watching how an adult views a precious child. Teaching the 3 R’s is all well and good, but we that homeschool want to also instill God’s values, right?

After all, Jesus said in Luke 9:48,

Whosoever shall receive this child in my name receiveth me: and whosoever shall receive me receiveth him that sent me: for he that is least among you all, the same shall be great.”

Any other ideas on how to Celebrate Children?

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  • Leticia says on: September 8, 2006 at 6:22 pm

     

    I agree all life is precious and children, well they are just the topping on the cake, nothing is more precious. They are a gift and a blessing from God.

    My two boys are my life and I couldn’t imagine my life without them. They make my life full, rich and very happy.

    Thank Heavenly Father for my two beautiful gifts, I will treasure them until the end of time and more.

  • Neurotic Mom says on: September 8, 2006 at 7:36 pm

     

    Oh i love that picture, that is just so precious. I always loved playing with my kids feet when they were babies, now they are extremely ticklish and won’t let me near their toes LOl.

    Great blog, sent by Sanity Break

  • Chris Naron says on: September 9, 2006 at 1:41 am

     

    “Any other ideas on how to Celebrate Children? ”

    Spoil them rotten. 🙂

    Meanwhile, babies are worth having just to smell their heads.

  • Mary says on: September 9, 2006 at 10:11 am

     

    “babies are worth having just to smell their heads.”
    Waves of nostalgia rolling over me…those downy soft sweet smelling heads…and limpid blue eyes…

  • Robyn Canarick says on: December 28, 2006 at 5:05 pm

     

    I LOVE TO BE TICKLED AND I AM TICKLISH ON MY FEET!!!!!

  • ann_in_grace says on: January 9, 2007 at 6:05 am

     

    If I only were 10 years younger… I would go for two more 🙂 In this we are united, my dh and I. But we are so blessed with our two…

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