Comments on: How to Seduce a Woman http://www.minthegap.com/2008/02/22/how-to-seduce-a-woman/ Standing in the Gap in a Society that's Warring with God. Wed, 25 Jan 2012 19:17:43 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Lair List http://www.minthegap.com/2008/02/22/how-to-seduce-a-woman/comment-page-1/#comment-85860 Lair List Thu, 28 Jan 2010 00:19:49 +0000 http://www.minthegap.com/2008/02/22/how-to-seduce-a-woman/#comment-85860 "This isn’t about finding the right woman to settle down and have a family with, this is all about taking advantage of women– and the sad part is that women don’t even realize it." Not true at all. Those goals are not mutually exclusive. “This isn’t about finding the right woman to settle down and have a family with, this is all about taking advantage of women– and the sad part is that women don’t even realize it.”

Not true at all. Those goals are not mutually exclusive.

]]> By: MInTheGap http://www.minthegap.com/2008/02/22/how-to-seduce-a-woman/comment-page-1/#comment-79687 MInTheGap Wed, 27 Feb 2008 13:46:17 +0000 http://www.minthegap.com/2008/02/22/how-to-seduce-a-woman/#comment-79687 Christine, it is quite provocative, but I think that it's important that women know exactly what what's going on. Loc, women are the victims, but only because they allow themselves to be. Unfortunately, there is more motivation for the woman to be good than for the man. Society has recently taught the woman that it's ok to be bad-- if not glamorous. They'd told these young ladies that it's ok to have the morals of an alley cat "because the boys are that way." In reality, neither should be that way-- but the girls have a better chance of effecting the change. Why? First, because it's only recently that they have accepted this concept. Girls used to hold out for chivalry, they made the man work, and they rewarded commitment with pleasure. Second, women bear the children, and the majority of STDs actually have more of an effect on women then men. Therefore it's in their best interest to limit the number of sexual partners. So, you're right-- I definitely need to tell the guys that they need to conquer the heart (like AG said) instead of just going for the physical pleasure. They have to be told that virginity is something that they should have until marriage as well. But the reality on the ground is that if we can convince women that they are worth waiting for, that they are special, and that it's in their best interest to wait, then we will have come a long way. Christine, it is quite provocative, but I think that it’s important that women know exactly what what’s going on.

Loc, women are the victims, but only because they allow themselves to be. Unfortunately, there is more motivation for the woman to be good than for the man. Society has recently taught the woman that it’s ok to be bad– if not glamorous. They’d told these young ladies that it’s ok to have the morals of an alley cat “because the boys are that way.” In reality, neither should be that way– but the girls have a better chance of effecting the change. Why?

First, because it’s only recently that they have accepted this concept. Girls used to hold out for chivalry, they made the man work, and they rewarded commitment with pleasure.

Second, women bear the children, and the majority of STDs actually have more of an effect on women then men. Therefore it’s in their best interest to limit the number of sexual partners.

So, you’re right– I definitely need to tell the guys that they need to conquer the heart (like AG said) instead of just going for the physical pleasure. They have to be told that virginity is something that they should have until marriage as well. But the reality on the ground is that if we can convince women that they are worth waiting for, that they are special, and that it’s in their best interest to wait, then we will have come a long way.

]]> By: AG http://www.minthegap.com/2008/02/22/how-to-seduce-a-woman/comment-page-1/#comment-79644 AG Tue, 26 Feb 2008 17:34:35 +0000 http://www.minthegap.com/2008/02/22/how-to-seduce-a-woman/#comment-79644 Men were created to be conquerors.  Some of the most godly men focus on the arsonal God has given them in claiming victory over the enemy.  They were created to overcome. So many men try to conquer women, which I don't think is always a bad thing.  It just depends on how they do so.  Most men, especially those who don't know better, try to conquer them physically.  But a woman's heart should be conquered.  A man must fight for a woman's affection and love, then when he has that love, fight to retain it. If a woman gives herself prematurely to a man, he's just conquered a part of her and loses interest.  Unless he's bound in a marriage covenant, it's very tempting to turn to the next challenge. <em>AG's last blog post..<a href='http://talmidah-b-yeshua.blogspot.com/2008/02/mercy-seat.html'>The Mercy Seat</a></em> Men were created to be conquerors.  Some of the most godly men focus on the arsonal God has given them in claiming victory over the enemy.  They were created to overcome.
So many men try to conquer women, which I don’t think is always a bad thing.  It just depends on how they do so.  Most men, especially those who don’t know better, try to conquer them physically.  But a woman’s heart should be conquered.  A man must fight for a woman’s affection and love, then when he has that love, fight to retain it.
If a woman gives herself prematurely to a man, he’s just conquered a part of her and loses interest.  Unless he’s bound in a marriage covenant, it’s very tempting to turn to the next challenge.

AG’s last blog post..The Mercy Seat

]]> By: Loc http://www.minthegap.com/2008/02/22/how-to-seduce-a-woman/comment-page-1/#comment-79638 Loc Tue, 26 Feb 2008 13:56:38 +0000 http://www.minthegap.com/2008/02/22/how-to-seduce-a-woman/#comment-79638 Min, it sounds like in the post you are making the women out to be victims, so why is your main message for the victim to change how they are acting?? It’s not a woman's fault if a man trys to use her, if she is truly as you say the victim, so why change how she is acting if she is not at fault.? No min, what needs to be done here is not to teach our girls to be chaster but to teach our boys to be so.? If we want to fix the problem, we need to stop ignoring our boys’ sins in favor of over regulating our girls.? You have admitted it yourself, boys are more likely to want to have sex and therefore more likely to commit this sin, so why do you make no mention of teaching them how to restrain themselves?? Stop ignoring the boys fault in these issues. Min, it sounds like in the post you are making the women out to be victims, so why is your main message for the victim to change how they are acting?? It’s not a woman’s fault if a man trys to use her, if she is truly as you say the victim, so why change how she is acting if she is not at fault.?

No min, what needs to be done here is not to teach our girls to be chaster but to teach our boys to be so.? If we want to fix the problem, we need to stop ignoring our boys’ sins in favor of over regulating our girls.? You have admitted it yourself, boys are more likely to want to have sex and therefore more likely to commit this sin, so why do you make no mention of teaching them how to restrain themselves?? Stop ignoring the boys fault in these issues.

]]> By: Christine http://www.minthegap.com/2008/02/22/how-to-seduce-a-woman/comment-page-1/#comment-79615 Christine Mon, 25 Feb 2008 23:39:57 +0000 http://www.minthegap.com/2008/02/22/how-to-seduce-a-woman/#comment-79615 That's quite the attention grabbing post title. Good for you, too because you hit the nail on the head, big time. <em>Christine's last blog post..<a href='http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/serenityhow/~3/241110378/blog-post_25.html'>A Cinderella Story</a></em> That’s quite the attention grabbing post title. Good for you, too because you hit the nail on the head, big time.

Christine’s last blog post..A Cinderella Story

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