Comments on: The Gradual Increase of Lust http://www.minthegap.com/2007/03/16/the-gradual-increase-of-lust/ Standing in the Gap in a Society that's Warring with God. Wed, 25 Jan 2012 19:17:43 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Ashley http://www.minthegap.com/2007/03/16/the-gradual-increase-of-lust/comment-page-1/#comment-87113 Ashley Thu, 02 Jun 2011 23:07:15 +0000 http://www.minthegap.com/2007/03/16/the-gradual-increase-of-lust/#comment-87113 @Cheyenna To quote Voddie Baucham, dating is only glorified divorce. I think that we should "raise the bar" when it comes to our dating standards. Be in the world, but not of it. Just some food for thought. @Cheyenna
To quote Voddie Baucham, dating is only glorified divorce. I think that we should “raise the bar” when it comes to our dating standards. Be in the world, but not of it. Just some food for thought.

]]> By: Cheyenna http://www.minthegap.com/2007/03/16/the-gradual-increase-of-lust/comment-page-1/#comment-87044 Cheyenna Tue, 17 May 2011 21:47:01 +0000 http://www.minthegap.com/2007/03/16/the-gradual-increase-of-lust/#comment-87044 I am around the young girls age and i would not date that guy anyways. His sexual history is baggage to the next relationship. In realitiy isnt dating preparation for marriage? So when you have two young people preparing for a commitment like this than bringing a loaded bag will weight down their relationship. I would like my husband and myself to refrain from these urges to be pure and enter the sacred (when preformed in the context God intended) sexual relationship together and complete with no baggage and utter pureness in sex. I am around the young girls age and i would not date that guy anyways. His sexual history is baggage to the next relationship. In realitiy isnt dating preparation for marriage? So when you have two young people preparing for a commitment like this than bringing a loaded bag will weight down their relationship. I would like my husband and myself to refrain from these urges to be pure and enter the sacred (when preformed in the context God intended) sexual relationship together and complete with no baggage and utter pureness in sex.

]]> By: savita bhabhi http://www.minthegap.com/2007/03/16/the-gradual-increase-of-lust/comment-page-1/#comment-87018 savita bhabhi Sun, 08 May 2011 10:18:12 +0000 http://www.minthegap.com/2007/03/16/the-gradual-increase-of-lust/#comment-87018 i think a lot about this.and now i am with a decision that education is important at dis time for you. love is not that thing which u should take as serious at this age ,so just save your all love for the right time . that time will be real time for your love and responsibilities with love. i think a lot about this.and now i am with a decision that education is important at dis time for you.
love is not that thing which u should take as serious at this age ,so just save your all love for the right time .
that time will be real time for your love and responsibilities with love.
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]]> By: ipl http://www.minthegap.com/2007/03/16/the-gradual-increase-of-lust/comment-page-1/#comment-86967 ipl Fri, 15 Apr 2011 07:12:45 +0000 http://www.minthegap.com/2007/03/16/the-gradual-increase-of-lust/#comment-86967 obviously,the parents were right for their decision. obviously,the parents were right for their decision.

]]> By: Katrina Kaif http://www.minthegap.com/2007/03/16/the-gradual-increase-of-lust/comment-page-1/#comment-86832 Katrina Kaif Sun, 06 Mar 2011 05:05:23 +0000 http://www.minthegap.com/2007/03/16/the-gradual-increase-of-lust/#comment-86832 If your boyfriend cared about you he would stick up for you. But those are his kids. Maybe you need to talk to him about it and if you've tried that then maybe he's not mature enough to handle the relationship not you. Thanks <a href="http://www.katrinakaif-pictures.com/">Katrina Kaif</a> If your boyfriend cared about you he would stick up for you. But those are his kids. Maybe you need to talk to him about it and if you’ve tried that then maybe he’s not mature enough to handle the relationship not you.

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]]> By: katrina kaif wallpapers http://www.minthegap.com/2007/03/16/the-gradual-increase-of-lust/comment-page-1/#comment-86763 katrina kaif wallpapers Thu, 10 Feb 2011 06:43:52 +0000 http://www.minthegap.com/2007/03/16/the-gradual-increase-of-lust/#comment-86763 I think the mother and father did the fitting factor in not letting the daughter date this guy. I think the mother and father did the fitting factor in not letting the daughter date this guy.

]]> By: katrina kaif http://www.minthegap.com/2007/03/16/the-gradual-increase-of-lust/comment-page-1/#comment-86452 katrina kaif Tue, 17 Aug 2010 14:31:29 +0000 http://www.minthegap.com/2007/03/16/the-gradual-increase-of-lust/#comment-86452 I think the parents did the right thing in not letting the daughter date this guy. .-= katrina kaif´s last blog ..<a href="http://katrina-kaif-wallpaper-hot.blogspot.com/2008/10/katrina-kaif-beautiful-wallpapers.html">Katrina Kaif BEAUTIFUL Wallpapers</a> =-. I think the parents did the right thing in not letting the daughter date this guy.
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]]> By: Napier http://www.minthegap.com/2007/03/16/the-gradual-increase-of-lust/comment-page-1/#comment-86279 Napier Wed, 04 Aug 2010 07:41:35 +0000 http://www.minthegap.com/2007/03/16/the-gradual-increase-of-lust/#comment-86279 @Jaq the spelling is irrelivant, he has a valid point (misspelled or not). There are a great many parents who naively believe that their son or daughter is somehow different to the rest of the world, and that their values will have rubbed off on their children. Both of these are myths. If teens want to have sex, they'll have sex... if they want to do drugs, they'll do drugs... if they want to shoot people from across the street because they "don't like mondays", you get the picture... All you can do is prepare them and help them make the decisions which will work for them. Just because your faith helped you overcome the moments of lust in your life and get married "as god intended" doesn't mean your kids will do the same, prepare them for modern life by discussing the emotional issues surrounding long term romantic relationships, and sexuality; and warn them of the dangers of STI's, unplanned pregnacy, and even physical discomfort which can arise from sexual activity. Telling a teenager what they should or shouldn't do is a poor excuse for parenting, and rigidly enforcing such edicts is tantamount to child abuse, informing your children and shaping their opinions however is actually quite effective. For what it's worth, the parent's of this particular girl probably have a valid point, however they could easily have found a middle ground which wouldn't encourage her to engage in a relationship secretively which is where the real harm can be done. @Jaq the spelling is irrelivant, he has a valid point (misspelled or not).

There are a great many parents who naively believe that their son or daughter is somehow different to the rest of the world, and that their values will have rubbed off on their children. Both of these are myths.

If teens want to have sex, they’ll have sex… if they want to do drugs, they’ll do drugs… if they want to shoot people from across the street because they “don’t like mondays”, you get the picture… All you can do is prepare them and help them make the decisions which will work for them.

Just because your faith helped you overcome the moments of lust in your life and get married “as god intended” doesn’t mean your kids will do the same, prepare them for modern life by discussing the emotional issues surrounding long term romantic relationships, and sexuality; and warn them of the dangers of STI’s, unplanned pregnacy, and even physical discomfort which can arise from sexual activity.

Telling a teenager what they should or shouldn’t do is a poor excuse for parenting, and rigidly enforcing such edicts is tantamount to child abuse, informing your children and shaping their opinions however is actually quite effective.

For what it’s worth, the parent’s of this particular girl probably have a valid point, however they could easily have found a middle ground which wouldn’t encourage her to engage in a relationship secretively which is where the real harm can be done.

]]> By: Jaq http://www.minthegap.com/2007/03/16/the-gradual-increase-of-lust/comment-page-1/#comment-85928 Jaq Thu, 04 Mar 2010 04:14:16 +0000 http://www.minthegap.com/2007/03/16/the-gradual-increase-of-lust/#comment-85928 Chris? It's naive. learn to spell. Chris? It’s naive. learn to spell.

]]> By: chris http://www.minthegap.com/2007/03/16/the-gradual-increase-of-lust/comment-page-1/#comment-85864 chris Mon, 01 Feb 2010 11:09:31 +0000 http://www.minthegap.com/2007/03/16/the-gradual-increase-of-lust/#comment-85864 you guys are all so nyeve if you really think your teens are telling you the truth about their sexual history. theyre going to do whatever they want, so you just need to accept that unless you wanna stick your head in the sand like 90% of parents today you guys are all so nyeve if you really think your teens are telling you the truth about their sexual history. theyre going to do whatever they want, so you just need to accept that unless you wanna stick your head in the sand like 90% of parents today

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