Comments on: Would You Do It, All Over Again? http://www.minthegap.com/2007/02/15/would-you-do-it-all-over-again/ Standing in the Gap in a Society that's Warring with God. Wed, 25 Jan 2012 19:17:43 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: MInTheGap http://www.minthegap.com/2007/02/15/would-you-do-it-all-over-again/comment-page-1/#comment-52556 MInTheGap Fri, 16 Feb 2007 20:24:02 +0000 http://www.minthegap.com/2007/02/15/would-you-do-it-all-over-again/#comment-52556 Toddler? Who gets up with the infant is the question we currently have! :sleeping: We're trying to get on a schedule so that we're able to maximize our sleep, but you know how that is! Toddler? Who gets up with the infant is the question we currently have! :sleeping:

We’re trying to get on a schedule so that we’re able to maximize our sleep, but you know how that is!

]]> By: Holly http://www.minthegap.com/2007/02/15/would-you-do-it-all-over-again/comment-page-1/#comment-52546 Holly Fri, 16 Feb 2007 19:58:17 +0000 http://www.minthegap.com/2007/02/15/would-you-do-it-all-over-again/#comment-52546 AH, thanks for the link. I'm one of those strange ones who doesn't think marriage is all that hard...I'd marry the same fellow over a thousand times, and still wish for more time. Who will get up at night with the toddler...THAT's a hard question... :wub: AH, thanks for the link. I’m one of those strange ones who doesn’t think marriage is all that hard…I’d marry the same fellow over a thousand times, and still wish for more time.

Who will get up at night with the toddler…THAT’s a hard question… :wub:

]]> By: Mary http://www.minthegap.com/2007/02/15/would-you-do-it-all-over-again/comment-page-1/#comment-52202 Mary Thu, 15 Feb 2007 23:35:51 +0000 http://www.minthegap.com/2007/02/15/would-you-do-it-all-over-again/#comment-52202 Ahh...we have that argument often here too! Great comment, Stephen! Ahh…we have that argument often here too! Great comment, Stephen!

]]> By: Stephen Kingston http://www.minthegap.com/2007/02/15/would-you-do-it-all-over-again/comment-page-1/#comment-52193 Stephen Kingston Thu, 15 Feb 2007 22:20:12 +0000 http://www.minthegap.com/2007/02/15/would-you-do-it-all-over-again/#comment-52193 Would I get married all over again? That's impossible to answer really, but I have never regretted getting married the first time over. I believe there is only one legitimate argument that couples may have with one another, and I argue it with Gill often: which one of us loves the other more. :biggrin: Would I get married all over again? That’s impossible to answer really, but I have never regretted getting married the first time over. I believe there is only one legitimate argument that couples may have with one another, and I argue it with Gill often: which one of us loves the other more. :biggrin:

]]> By: Leticia http://www.minthegap.com/2007/02/15/would-you-do-it-all-over-again/comment-page-1/#comment-52170 Leticia Thu, 15 Feb 2007 19:20:01 +0000 http://www.minthegap.com/2007/02/15/would-you-do-it-all-over-again/#comment-52170 There was a long time in my life where I wish I had never, ever gotten married and regretted it on a daily basis. My marriage has been a constant struggle and the only thing positive were my little boys, until now. God is working and I truly enjoy marriage. There was a long time in my life where I wish I had never, ever gotten married and regretted it on a daily basis. My marriage has been a constant struggle and the only thing positive were my little boys, until now. God is working and I truly enjoy marriage.

]]> By: Mary http://www.minthegap.com/2007/02/15/would-you-do-it-all-over-again/comment-page-1/#comment-52134 Mary Thu, 15 Feb 2007 16:02:09 +0000 http://www.minthegap.com/2007/02/15/would-you-do-it-all-over-again/#comment-52134 You bring up some excellent points...marriage is so good for a person willing to surrender self. I agree that it's a major decision that way too many face without realism, uppermost in their mind is the wedding planning, not the marriage training. I'm so thankful that both my husband and I were Christians coming from backgrounds rooted in strong Christian marriages...what a backbone that support was in the early years. I was so young...in one way it was a good transition for me straight from my father's protection to that of my husbands, in another, it just meant a lot of maturity to learn overnight! I'd do it all over again in a heartbeat, no regrets here. I'm a much better person because of my dear husband's influence. You bring up some excellent points…marriage is so good for a person willing to surrender self. I agree that it’s a major decision that way too many face without realism, uppermost in their mind is the wedding planning, not the marriage training. I’m so thankful that both my husband and I were Christians coming from backgrounds rooted in strong Christian marriages…what a backbone that support was in the early years. I was so young…in one way it was a good transition for me straight from my father’s protection to that of my husbands, in another, it just meant a lot of maturity to learn overnight!

I’d do it all over again in a heartbeat, no regrets here. I’m a much better person because of my dear husband’s influence.

]]> By: ann_in_grace http://www.minthegap.com/2007/02/15/would-you-do-it-all-over-again/comment-page-1/#comment-52120 ann_in_grace Thu, 15 Feb 2007 15:42:38 +0000 http://www.minthegap.com/2007/02/15/would-you-do-it-all-over-again/#comment-52120 I would, too. But probably, knowing what I know now, I would be less blue-eyed and much more realistic in my expectations. Especially those regarding "wanting to change him"-ideas. I have never regretted anything in my life, so I am happy with my choices. But then again, knowing what I know now - this time about God - this is the way it was supposed to be. I would, too. But probably, knowing what I know now, I would be less blue-eyed and much more realistic in my expectations. Especially those regarding “wanting to change him”-ideas.
I have never regretted anything in my life, so I am happy with my choices. But then again, knowing what I know now – this time about God – this is the way it was supposed to be.

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